I experienced much more of life than I realized. I got the privilege to have the best of both worlds in being an only and spoiled child for 10 years and then I grew up with 6 more siblings the following 10 years. At first, it took a little bit of time to adjust. The change of culture and environment transitioned me into my family much easier. I grew up very quickly learning and understanding my role in the family. Fitting in was what I did best. As time progressed, I became a young adult taking on responsibilities as one of the family members. I was so thankful to experience the best of both worlds.
In order for me to learn, I endured and went through hardship. I learned to really appreciate what I have instead of focusing on what I don’t have. It is such a great lesson of life that I had learned at a young age. There were many internal challenges within myself to make what seemed to be the right choices at the time. I truly believe that everyone goes through their own journey physically and mentally in life whether it is glamorized or not. The learned result of that journey creates their character. I transformed “Why me?” into “What about me?” or “How about me?”
Through their unconditional love, my parents gave me a priceless gift and the best gift that no money can buy. My parents gave me the opportunity to experience freedom. Although I was too young at the time to appreciate, my journey from Vietnam was an adventure which I shall treasure for the rest of my days. Now that I am older and hopefully wiser, I established a huge appreciation for my family, my friends, and The United States of America.
Love your blog/ new book
Just now have had some time to read it.
Please let me know when you’re next
Cooking demonstration is (sorry I missed the
last one).
& you’re next blog I would love to read that also
Thanks. & happy blogging & New Year
Hello Tamie! My next cooking demonstrations will be on February 18 & 24. The details are posted on my website at demo. (https://phoqueencooking.com/demo/)
The next blog to my intro is the timeline regarding Vietnam War, my life and American history. (https://phoqueencooking.com/2017/12/my-journey-to-america-vietnam-war/).
I hope the Holidays have been good to you. Happy New Year 2018!